Sunday, April 12, 2015

If You Like My Blog You May Like My Book



Dear Reader, I have written a book! It's called How I Look, and it's a style memoir about the people and places and experiences that have shaped my sense of style and taste, from growing up in upstate New York to college in Montreal to summers on Martha's Vineyard to living and working in New York City. It's a paperback with about 130 of my black and white photographs, and is available on Amazon.com for the low Amazon price of $12.27!
I am grateful to TD, a graphic designer and art director, and designed the book and the cover. I like "how it looks."



Recently, I has happily surprised when the book got a good review from the fashion bible Women's Wear Daily.


Read the WWD review here.
The book is really born out of encouragement I received from this blog. As I was writing it, with stories about Perry Ellis and Polly Mellen and Jackie Kennedy and Bergdorf Goodman, a theme emerged, which was American style. Chic but casual, sophisticated but simple, and elegant but effortless, the theme of American style kept popping up, and became a thread through the stories in the book.
It's available on Amazon here. I hope you like it! 

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

The Bailey House Gala and Auction




The Bailey House Gala and Auction is next Thursday, March 26! If you are in New York, think about attending this wonderful, fun event. Ted and I have been involved with it for many years, and I have written about it here and here, when I made my one and only appearance on Bill Cunningham's New York Times "Evening Hours" party page. Bailey House is an important organization here in New York City which provides affordable housing and supportive services for homeless people living with HIV/AIDS. Stable housing is a crucial factor in good health and prevention of HIV/AIDS. This Gala is Bailey House's big fund raiser for the year. In the early days, Ted and I and a handful of other people really got this event off the ground. Now it has grown into a big and popular annual occasion. I'm proud to say that Ted has remained involved and has sat on the Bailey House Board of Directors for years.
At the auction, we have picked up some favorite things.
Photographer Christopher Makos took this portrait of us several years ago -



This colorful series of prints by artist Robert Grossman depicts "Armchair Travelers."



This whimsical drawing in ink on brown paper is by illustrator R. O. Blechman –



The industrial piece on the left features a half a wood spool on top of a metal stand, and I love it.




In his art studio, Ted also has a colorful print by James Rosenquist.
The event on Thursday night will be held at the Chelsea Piers, on the edge of the Hudson River. The evening begins with a gala dinner when Jane Pauley will be honored as well as my Ralph Lauren work associate Executive Vice President Alfredo Paredes and his husband writer Brad Goldfarb. After dinner, the lively auction will take place, where there will be more than 100 works of art and photography offered as well home decor items and trips to Paris, Costa Rica and Palm Springs.
Some highlights include a commissioned portrait by renowned artist Andres Serrano (represented here by a portrait of Chloe Sevigny) –



A handsome chair from Brunschwig –



Black and white photograph by Paul Reitz -



It's a fun event with a great offering of beautiful things and it does good work! Tickets are available here. All proceeds go to provide housing and supportive services to those in need living with HIV/AIDS.

Monday, February 16, 2015

A Trip to Florida with a Jaunt to Palm Beach



TD and I recently spent a week in Florida and it was such a treat to get away from the frigid Northeast winter. Neither of us are big fans of winter... We flew Jet Blue down to Palm Beach Airport. As the plane took off from LaGuardia and headed south, I got a dramatic view from my window seat of the Hudson River looking down toward Manhattan and New York Harbor beyond. It's so much fun to fly.
In Florida, we stayed at TD's brother's condominium located near the ocean between Stuart and Jupiter above Palm Beach. The condominium is in a marina and it's build right on the water so we had wonderful views of blue water and sky.


In that water each day outside the condominium slept a huge manatee which we had never seen before. It was like a big whale, and interesting to watch it move around during the day.
To the ocean beach we promptly went.


TD and I love an ocean beach.


During the week we went to different beaches along the way. We were lucky with the weather - sunny and bright every day.
On Wednesday we drove to West Palm Beach and Palm Beach. West Palm Beach is home of the renowned Antiques Row along South Dixie Highway where many antique stores are located, and I have always wanted to go there. We parked our rented black Jeep and strolled along the highway to visit a number of shops.
I really liked Wilson Antiques with its white walls, metal chandeliers and dark wood furniture - a great, handsome look.


Coco House and Company features wonderful bamboo furnishings, which I love as I've said on the blog many times. To me, it's exotic and elegant but not too fancy - there is something casual about it. We chatted with the affable owner Serge de Laville who is originally from the south of France and has plenty of Gallic charm.


A couple of doors down is Cote Jardin, which offers French antique furniture and garden antiques. Behind the store was a pretty garden and another cottage to investigate.


We had a delicious lunch and then drove over the bridge to Palm Beach. Strung along Worth Avenue is every major luxury brand you can think of including Neiman Marcus, Saks Fifth Avenue, Chanel, Gucci and Tiffany. Of course I had to visit the Ralph Lauren store. In signature Ralph Lauren style, the staircase was lined with paintings, but the colors of the art in the Palm Beach store were lighter and paler than in northern counterparts – very pretty.


We stopped at the famous Breakers Hotel for a drink in the bar. The Breakers was built in 1926 to resemble an Italian palace. It was pretty great.


The rest of the week we spent at the beach in the sun and taking dips in the ocean. After the beach we would swim in the heated pool at the condo complex.


I love the blue skies and water of the Sunshine State. It's 15 degrees in New York today. Wish I was back there now!

Saturday, January 24, 2015

Novel Interiors



Lisa Borgnes Giramonti is a friend I met through the world of blogging. I believe we started our blogs around the same time, in 2008. Lisa lives in L.A. with her husband and son, and her wonderful blog is called A Bloomsbury Life. We became social media friends because we shared a similar passion for beauty and a taste in style and books and decorating and culture. When Lisa came to New York, we had a jolly drink together at the Gramercy Park Hotel; she wore perfectly worn jeans and black top which looked simple but was in fact wonderfully complicated.
Recently Lisa published a book with Potter Style which combines two of her, and my, favorite subjects – decorating and literature. Called Novel Interiors, it shows how themes from literature can be borrowed to inspire houses and rooms. With chapters centered on favorites like Jane Austen, Edith Wharton, Evelyn Waugh, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ernest Hemingway, and more, Lisa explores how interiors can capture the spirit of literary passages.
First, I was impressed by all of the reading she has done and all of the literary quotes included herein!
Secondly, I was inspired by the decorating and the ideas –
I love the bamboo furniture in this spread in the chapter entitled "Remembrances of Things Past." I'm sure my fondness for bamboo comes from my great aunt Milly who lived in the Philippines.


A flower garden! Accompanied by quotes from Virginia Wolfe – dreamy.


I think my favorite spread is this bedroom which features windswept curtains and coral tacked to the wall and a mix of stripes and patterns on the bed.


On the Acknowledgements page I was honored to find myself thanked along with an illustrious group of writers and bloggers! What a nice surprise that was to discover –


After I read Lisa's book and I went out and bought some striped cotton ticking fabric to layer on our green canvas couch. And next, I intend to tackle her reading list at the end of the book. It's a lovely tome that I recommend. I support and encourage my compatriots who strive to make the world more beautiful and civilized. Bravo. 

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays



I hope you are having a wonderful holiday season. I have had an unusual season this year – super busy at my new job at Ralph Lauren, and also very preoccupied with getting my father ready to move to Colorado, which I wrote about on the blog previously. So my attention has been elsewhere and the holiday season has literally flown by, but TD and I have enjoyed some wonderful parties and entertainments here in New York City.
Last weekend we at last got our Christmas tree up (above). We got it from our friend Billy Romp on Jane Street who has supplied our tree since 1988.
For my birthday, which is at the end of November, we went to see Pippin on Broadway!
(photo from Pippin web site)


When I was in high school, I went to see the traveling version of Pippin in Utica at the Stanley Theater. I took a girl. Later we went to the junior prom. Let's just say I enjoyed Pippin more! This production on Broadway is directed by Diane Paulus, who was the genius behind the recent Broadway production of Hair, and it features gymnasts and acrobats in a circus setting. It was so colorful and entertaining. We sat in the first row in the balcony. I had great time.
My photo of the curtain call –


On TD's birthday, which comes one week later, we had a delicious lunch at Union Square Cafe –


Up at Bergdorf Goodman, the theme of the holiday windows is the arts. This glittering one is based on music –


They do such a fantastic job with their windows. This one is inspired by film. It looks like a Greta Garbo silent movie –


Down Fifth Avenue, TD enjoyed viewing the big tree at Rockefeller Center –


We went to see the Matisse cut-outs at the Museum of Modern Art. I love these Christmas colors –


My mother had a cousin named Bondie O'Donnell, and he has a daughter named Julia who has a daughter Uma who is 14 years old and is studying here in New York City at the School of American Ballet. She's a real ballerina! I think Uma and I are second cousins once removed. Anyway, TD and I took Uma to see George Balanchine's The Nutcracker at the New York City Ballet at Lincoln Center. (photos from the web site)


It was so beautiful. I had seen it years ago but really had not remembered how ornate and gorgeous it is.


Here we are at intermission, O'Donnell second cousins once removed.



Today is Christmas Eve. We are going tonight to my brother Eric's in Montclair for a family dinner. There we will say good-bye to my father who is moving to Colorado on Friday.
This is a picture of the two of us a few years ago at a wedding


I will miss him a lot.
And I am wishing you all the best for the holidays and the new year, dear reader. 

Monday, December 8, 2014

The Joyous Matisse Cut-Outs Exhibition and Catalogue



The Sheaf
TD and I recently ordered timed tickets online and went to the beautiful and extraordinary Matisse exhibit at the Museum of Modern Art. Henri Matisse is one of my all time favorite artists. I love the colors and simplicity and joy in his paintings. For the last years of his life, due to nearly fatal abdominal cancer, Matisse was disabled and confined to a bed or chair, so he could not physically paint. But he devised another medium for his artistry. From his bed or chair, he cut out pieces of paper which had been painted in colors to his specifications. Then he directed assistants how to arrange the pieces on the wall with pins. The resulting colorful cut-outs stand as some of the great artworks of the twentieth century.
Talk about turning lemons into lemonade.
No photography is allowed in the MOMA exhibit but I will say it is one of the most amazing shows I have seen. Matisse himself combined many cut-out art works together on the walls of his studio, and the arrangements are reproduced on the walls of the museum so there is an explosion of color everywhere you look.


The Parrot and the Mermaid
Matisse's great genius was his simplicity. Using a few colors like those out of a child's small crayon box and the most basic shapes and forms, he creates compositions that moved me emotionally, they were so beautiful. Even though they are simple, they have great power and great joy.


Memory of Oceania
As Matisse worked in the medium, the art works got even bigger and even simpler.


The Snail
It's a generous show that goes on and on - there are about 100 artworks. What a great pleasure it was to see. At the end, we bought the exhibition catalogue


which wonderfully reproduces the cut-outs.


As I mentioned, the exhibit demonstrates how the artist hung his work in his home and was surrounded by it daily. These photographs show how Matisse covered his walls with his artwork. A nice way to live!


Here is Monsieur sitting in bed, in a tie, cutting out colored paper. Even the bed base board is shaped like a cut-out.


Here is the artist in a wheel chair surrounded by a rainbow of colored paper pieces. I like his turquoise cardigan.


This show is up through February 8, and the museum has tours and programs planned around it. Honestly, if you're in New York, don't miss this achievement.

Sunday, November 9, 2014

My Mother's Table



Readers may remember that my mother passed away two years ago. Since then, my father has been living in the family house alone, and he has wisely now put the house on the market to sell as it is way too large for one person. My parents bought the big, modern house in 1981 when it was still under construction. With four bedrooms and two bathrooms, it fit our family well. Not soon after, I moved to New York City, and over the years it was always fun for me, and later TD and I, to go Grand Central Station on a Friday night and take the train out along the Long Island Sound to visit my parents on the Connecticut Shoreline.

The dining room was the place to gather for big, celebratory family dinners. In later years, my mother got the idea from a magazine or book that she wanted to turn the dining room table into a kind of salon table, piled with some of her beloved things. She covered the table with a purple cloth and put on it some of her favorite decorating and fashion books and art and cards and objects. The combination of colors and flowers and sparkly things was a real expression of her taste; it was like a little portrait of her.


When she grew sicker, she was confined to her bed. When I was visiting once, she asked me to arrange the table, dust the objects, and adjust things, so that it looked good. I did as she requested and when a friend came to visit, she reported to my mother that the table was pretty which made my mother happy, even though she could not see it.

My mother had a decorating style which was uniquely her own, and she applied it to every corner of the house. She liked light, clear pastel colors, leggy brown wood furniture, and lots of art and books and personal things around. Come to think of it, that is my decorating style too. There was a lightness to everything she did. She also was an artist who painted, and some of her paintings hang on the wall in this night time view of the dining room – 


This big painting in the living room was found in Maine and features the colors and whimsy and lightness that my mother favored –


Here is a picture of my parents sitting in that chair on the right –


My father is currently considering a move to Colorado where he would live near my sister Cynthia. My mother's table is gone now. To prepare the house for sale, a stager came in and rearranged things for potential buyers. According to conventional wisdom, a lot of personal items were taken out of the house so that a buyer can see the possibilities. The collection my mother arranged was disassembled and the dining room table was laid with white dishes and silverware, as if awaiting diners to sit. My father reports tonight that a family came today to view the house and liked what they saw. And so begins the end of an era.